Traveling on Public Transport with Babies and Toddlers

Traveling on Public Transport with Babies and Toddlers

Thinking on traveling on Public Transport with babies and toddlers?  Read on!

I drive but do not own a car so since Miss M was a newborn, I’ve traveled with her by public transport when my husband hasn’t been with us – he’s the designated driver :)

Traveling by Bus

The first time I even walked out of the house with her on my own I felt a bit terrified so boarding a bus definitely scared me.  Would I be able to get her on and off the bus in time?  Where would we stand/sit?  Would she scream for the whole journey?  Would we be able to get OFF the bus in time or end up missing the stop?  And so on.  I can happily say that the fear quickly subsided and I’m so pleased that I wasn’t scared to venture on to public transport with my baby alone – it allowed us to get out of the house, visit friends, not have to rely on my husband and have many adventures together!  The pros most definitely outweighed the cons.

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My first few trips were taking the bus either to the hospital for check ups or to see friends and to this day I still get the bus and train to get around.  I couldn’t understand why friends wouldn’t leave their house if they didn’t have the car that day when they knew I would be traveling by bus week in week out to see them – or, shock and horror, walking!  Although I did understand that they were too scared to attempt the bus or train, I felt really sad for them that they were left housebound with their baby if they didn’t have a car.  Yes, it’s daunting at first but your confidence really does grow over time.

My first fear about getting the bus with Miss M was physically getting on the bus.  This probably sounds silly but I analysed and over-analysed in my head how I was physically going to get her up and on to the bus in the pram without tipping her in to the road or taking forever and annoying the driver and other passengers.  As it happened, when the bus pulled up the driver pulled it right to the curb-side for me and pressed a ‘magic’ button that tilted the bus a bit to the side so allow me to push the pram straight on – no problem!  Despite me being prepared with my ticket, I of course dropped it in panic inside the bus but he waited patiently for me to retrieve it, pay for the journey and find a seat in the front section with the space for prams and wheelchairs.  I also had offers from a couple of passengers to help me get on the bus and get settled – in my prior planning, I hadn’t bargained for the generous nature of other people!  Or magic buttons.

The journey was about 20 minutes and Miss M cried for the whole way and back and did so for almost every other bus journey for the first 2 months of her life.  Once I got over the paranoia of other passengers staring at me (I’m talking about you, old ladies!) I just did my best to amuse her for the short journey or to time it with her nap where possible.

Traveling by Train

The first time I got the train alone with Miss M was when she was a year old and I had exactly the same fears again.  Luckily, all the trains I’ve gotten in the UK have been upgraded for very easy access so again, you can just push the pram on and off easily.  The journeys I have been on have all be short – less than 20 minutes and we tend to stand just by the door so I haven’t had to try getting her out of the stroller, folding it up, trying to keep her from running up and down the carriage etc.

Again, I have so far had no issues – despite Miss M wondering what on earth was happening.  Luckily, she’s an avid people watcher and as long as there’s at least one other passenger sticking their tongue out at her occasionally, she’s a happy traveler.

Taxis

We’ve taken many taxi journeys in Australia and England when Miss M was a baby and it hasn’t been smooth sailing (driving) but we’ve picked up a few tips to help us make it as easy as possible.  The main thing is booking the taxi in advance and ensuring that the driver who turns up will have the correct car seat.  That said, we still had taxis turn up with a forward facing toddler seat instead of a rear facing capsule when Miss M was less than 6 months old.  I would definitely suggest booking the taxi in advance and for a time WELL in advance of when you really needed to leave.  It takes the taxi company much longer to locate a cab that has a car seat and you need to factor in time for the wrong one to turn up and your need to re-book it!

Another thing to be aware of is that although they have been completely safe, some of the car seats have not been cleaned well – certainly not to our standards.  For short journeys, this is manageable and we gave the seat a quick clean up before we put her in.

When I was pregnant a friend told me I was selfish for not getting a car because I wouldn’t be able to get around and take the baby anywhere.  I never forgot this comment – I couldn’t understand what she meant given I’d seen so many parents taking their babies on buses and trains.  I can however now understand the anxiety that goes with leaving the house with a newborn on your own and braving public transport but I’m so pleased to have overcome the fears so that now traveling on my own with Miss M is a frequent part of our lives.

Parents do not always need cars to get around, they only need confidence.  And a good public transport system.

Find out more tips for traveling with babies and toddlers here.

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9 Comments

  1. 23rd November 2014 / 5:29 pm

    We use alot of trains I can be a bit scared of buses. I never knew you could get taxis with car seats thats a good idea. Thanks for joining up with Sunday round up x

    • 3rd December 2014 / 3:24 pm

      I was at first too – at they’re not quite as reliable over here as in Australia but definitely not as bad as I thought :)

  2. 23rd November 2014 / 7:00 pm

    I have to confess, I hate public transport when I have Zach! I’ll never forget the first time we got on a bus, the 3 of us, the other half ended up rowing with the driver because he was so unaccommodating. I do much better with trains though, I’ve never not been offered help on the underground :) I still prefer driving though but applaud you for just getting on with it :) #sundayroundup

    • 3rd December 2014 / 3:25 pm

      I don’t really like it on my own – with or without Miss M ha! But it does give me the freedom I want to get around and not be reliant on the husband. Sounds like you had a horrible driver :( :( I hope they’re not all like that!

  3. Elizabeth @ Awesome Wave
    15th January 2015 / 9:29 am

    I don’t have children myself yet but I have spent a lot of time taking my sisters (under 10) on public transport. We go on outings using the train and buses. And I agree you don’t have to rely on cars.

    • 19th January 2015 / 7:32 pm

      It’s much easier than you’d think isn’t it – and probably a bit of an adventure for the kids too sometimes rather than being stuck in the back of a car :)

  4. 17th January 2015 / 11:14 pm

    We love public transport-the kids adore a bus and train ride. We drive mostly as we live in the countryside outside Leeds and it makes life easier. Thanks for linking up to #brilliantblogposts

    • 19th January 2015 / 7:33 pm

      Oh I do miss Leeds – but not driving through the city centre, the one way system is beyond me lol :) Thanks Vicki :)

  5. 4th July 2015 / 7:06 am

    We don’t have a car so use public transport a lot, from buses to trains, trams and the tube, and I agree it’s much less stressful than people think. Especially the tube – I’ve always found people are extremely helpful and willing to lend a hand with stairs, etc, although I’m sure travelling out of rush hour helps.

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